How can I be more present with my kids when I work long hours?
By Gordon David ·
Short answer
You don't need more hours — you need more of the moments you already have. Ten minutes of full, phone-free attention each day builds more connection than an evening spent half-distracted. Protect one short, distraction-free moment daily and attach connection to routines you already do, like the school run or bedtime.
What is a distraction-free connection moment?
It's a short, protected window — often just ten minutes — where your phone is in another room and your child chooses what you do together. Short and consistent beats long and rare.
How do I turn routines into connection?
Choose one routine you already do, then:
- Find one simple way to make it more interactive — a question on the school run, a story at bath time.
- Repeat it regularly, when it's practical.
- Let it become a small ritual your kids look forward to.
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